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Resources for Serious Illness: Adults
Call 775-5216 to browse our Library.

A Death in the Family  Alsopt, P. / Harley, B.

In the Hospital:  A Guide for Parents, Nurses, and Others Who Care This book helps professionals relate to and understand adults during this difficult time.   It is an institutionalized paperback book published by a group of experts

American Cancer Society When Your Brother or Sister Has Cancer  A Pamphlet that aids parents ways to explain the illness to children.

American Cancer Society Helping Children Understand A guide for a parent with Cancer: This Pamphlet deals with siblings that may have Cancer.  It is a guidebook for family members that parents can share.  IT is not a “Children’s Book”

American Cancer Society Kids First Cookbook Some delicious and Nutritious treats children can make.  The book is colorful and fun.

Anthony, Silvia The Discovery of Death in Childhood & After                             

Bass, E., Davis, L The Courage to Heal                                            

Bhakti, S. Listening with the Heart                                      

Bolton, I  My Son...My Son                                              

Bonn, R. & McCue, K.How to Help Children Though a Parent’s Serious Illness The title says it all.  This book is a practical guide that addresses how parents and caregivers can help children feel, grieve and be part of the dealing with the parent’s illness.  Starting with how to explain a illness to children of all different age groups all the way through to final communications, the author does a great job dealing with these issues and other special family and medical circumstances such as single household and mental illness.

Borg, S. & Lasker, J. When Pregnancy Fails                            

Borysenko, J. Guilt is the Teacher, Love is the Lesson

Brite, M. Hearts in Motion, Minds at Rest                                    

Brooks, A. The Grieving Time                                     

Braden, Majel Grief Comes to the Classroom                                                  

Cantor, R. A Time to Live, Harper Row                                            

Cassini & Rogers Death and the Classroom

Clark, M.B.  Are You Weeping With Me, God

Cohn, J. I Had a Friend Named Peter             

Cohen, M. Dirty Details; The Days and Nights of a Well Spouse  

Coleman, W.L. When Someone You Love Dies                                    

Colgrove, M. How to Survive the Loss of a Love                              

Conley, B., Howard, K. Handling the Holidays, COPE                                        

Cook, A. /Dworkin, D.  Helping the Bereaved, Basic Book                              

Corr, Charles A., /Joan McNeil Adolescence & Death

Corr, Charles A. Death: Completion & Discovery,

Coughlin, R. Loving                                                                                  

Dawson, S. & Harris L. Adventure in the Land of Grief                                      

Doil, A. Bereavement                                                          

Douglas, E. K. Living With The End in Mind  “A practical checklist for living life to the fullest by embracing your mortality.”  This book is written for those living with an illness and those in good health.  The advise in this book can help prepare a person emotionally, physically and spiritual with end of life issues.  It is an upfront look at death and ways you can prepare for the event that can happen before and after death.

Edelman, H. Motherless Daughters Emswiler, M  & Emswiler, J.

Guiding Your Child Through Grief It is written by the founders of the New England Center for Loss & Transition.  It is good books discussing the many ways children grieve, often in secret.  The changes in family dynamics after death and effective ways to ease transition.  They discuss ways to communicate with children about death.  It is insightful and informational, showing adults ways to help a child heal.

Eppinger, P. Restless Mind, Quiet Thoughts             

Erickson, Stephanie Companion Through The Darkness    

Estes, W. M. Another Part of the House                                  

Farrant, A.  Sibling Bereavement                                                        

Felder, L. When A Loved One is Ill              

Fitzgerald, Helen The Grieving Child                        

Frain, Taylor, Ernest Coping with Sudden Infant Death,

Frey, V.L. Part of Me Died Too, Dutton

Furman, E. A Child’s Parent Dies

Gill, D. Quest: The Life of Elizabeth Kubler-Ross                  

Gliko-Braden, M. Grief Comes to Class                   

Golden, T.R. Swallowed by a Snake                                                    

Goldman, Linda A Guide to Help Grieving Children                                           

Goldman, Linda Breaking the Silence, Helping children with Complicated Grief   

Grollman, E. Talking About Death                                                                    

Gordon & Kloss They Need to Know                                              

Graves, S. and S. Williams Holiday Help                                                           

Grollman, E. When Your Loved One is Dying            

Grollman, E.A. Concerning Death: A Practical Guide for the Living           

Grollman, E.A. Explaining Death to Children

Grollman, E.A. Living: When a Loved One Has Died                           

Grollman, E.A. Straight Talk About Death For Teens

Grollman, Earl Talking About Death: Dialogue Between Parent and Child          

Hagley, N. The Final Season                                      

Harpham, W.S. After Cancer                                                                       

Harpham, W. S.  M.D. When a Parent Has Cancer: A Guide to Caring for Your   Children  A mother, physician, and cancer survivor who had three children writes this book. She offers helpful advise about how to raise healthy children while a parent is struggling with a life-threatening illness.  She encourages talking to children honesty about the illness and helps parents lay the groundwork to helping children cope with the illness.

Harris, M. The Loss that is Forever                                                 

Heart, R.D.  Healing Grief: A Mother’s Story                         

Hellman, D. Let Go, My Love                                                                 

Holbert, E.M. The Memory Quilt                                                              

Hospice of East Alabama Medical Center Answers to a Child’s Questions about Death It is a small soft covered pamphlet.

Huntley, T.  Helping Children Grieve                                                  

Ingper, R. / Millonie, B. Lifetimes: The Beautiful Way to Explain Death to   Children        

James, J. Windows                                                     

Jarrett, C.L. Helping Children Cope With Separation and Loss

Jensen, H. Healing Grief                                                           

Jewett, C.L. Helping Children Cope With Loss                                

Johnson, Joy Keys to helping Children deal with Death & Grief    

Johnson, J. Suicide of a Child                                                  

Johnson, J.  Why Mine                                                                             

Krementz, J. How it Feels When a Parent Dies

Kubler-Ross, E. The Final Stages of Death                                                          

Kuklin, S. After A Suicide, Putnam                                      

Kubler & Ross On Children and Death                                                                

LaFountain, W.   Setting Limits...Parents, Kids & Drugs

Lagorio, J.  Life Cycle                                                    

LaTour, K. For Those Who Live         

Leder, J.M. Dead Serious                                                         

Leininger, L., Ilse, S. Grieving Grandparents                            

LeShan, E. Learning to Say Goodbye: When a Parent Dies                   

Levine, S.Healing Into Life and Death                    

Mandala Book Circle Book A leaders handbook for conducting circle-time

Mannes, M. Last Rights                                                 

McCracken & Semel A Broken Heart Still Beats                                              

McCue, K How to Help Children Through a Parent’s Serious Illness

Miller, J The Caregiver’s Book; Caring for Another, Caring for Yourself Compassionate exploration of the caregiver’s role, feelings, and experiences.  Practical, affirming suggestions for renewing strength and hope.  Words of inspiration from the Bible, literature, and great thinker through the age.  Beautiful full-color nature photographs that speak of love and hope.

Moffat, M.J. In the Midst of Winter                               

McCue, K. How to Help Children Through A Parents Serious Illness 

National Institute of Health When Someone in your Family has Cancer A Practical guidebook.

Nearing, H. Light on Aging and Dying

Newton, M. Adolescence                                                          

Oates, M.Death in the School Community                                                           

Osgood, J. Meditations for the Widowed                 

O’Toole, D. Growing Through Grief                                                               

Papenbrock & Voss Children’s Grief

Pipher, M. Reviving Ophelia                           

Rice, R. A Time to Mourn                                                    

Roberts & Johnson, J. Thank you For Coming to Say Goodbye        

Rudolf, M. Should the Children Know?                                          

Schaffer, D. & Christine L. How Do We Tell the Children

Schiff, H. S. The Bereaved Parent                                           

Schiff, H.S Living Through Mourning                                                           

Staudacher, C. Men and Grief

Stein, S.B. About Dying                                                           

Strauss L. What about Me?  A blue colored book for teenage children of Cancer patients…It is written in an adult manner.

Tagliaferre, L. & Harbaugh, G. Recovery from Loss                                             

Temes, R. Living With An Wmpty Chair                  

Traisman, E. S. A Child Remembers

Traisman, S. Fire in My Heart Ice in My Veins   

Trina, Paula Hope for the Flowers A tale partly about life…partly about revolution and lots about hope.   It is for adults and includes caterpillars that can read! 

Weinhaus, E. Stop Struggling with Your Teen                                                

Williams, K. A Parent’s Guide For Suicidal & Depressed Teens 

Wipfler, P. Listening to Children                                                                   

Wolfelt, A. A Child’s View of Grief                 

Wolfelt, Alan Helping Children Cope With Grief                                            

Wolfelt, Alan Healing Your Grieving Heart for Kids 100 practical ideas, simple advice and activities for children after a death    Nice book for parents, easy to read through.

Wolfelt, Alan Healing Your Grieving Heart For Teens 100 practical ideas, simple advice and activities for teens after a death…. Nice book for parents, easy to read through

Worden, W.  Grief Counseling and Grief Therapy                            

Zunin, L. The Art of Condolence:  What to write, What to say, What to do, At a time of loss



recommended articles

Helpful information on:

Encouraging your School to be Grief Friendly

Grief and the Holidays

How to Handle Grief

How to Support a Child During Crisis

Physical Manifestations of Grief

Suicide Prevention

What to tell Children about Suicide

What to Expect When a Loved One Has Died by Suicide

Developmental Stages in Children

Supporting Teens Through Difficult Times

The Center Library

Click here to browse reading recommendations from The Center for Grieving Children's Resource Library. Almost all titles are available for lending. Interested in visiting our library? Call 775-5216.

Resources for Grieving:

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